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These high achievers were from fields as varied as business, the arts, science, medicine, engineering and athletics, and they all functioned at the top leadership level.
I noticed that most of them appeared to be quite normal individuals - not greatly different from you or I. I don't think they were prodigies or geniuses, although all of them were pretty smart.
I also discovered that although each and every one of them had some talent in the fields in which they worked, consciously or unconsciously, they all used that talent with a system.
This started me thinking about what a system can do for a person with talent.
I looked at my own life. I realized I was forced to do many things simply because I had to. I had no talent to do many of the tasks I was expected to do, but simply did them because it was a matter of survival.
To keep up, I developed a system to cope. After doing this long enough, I woke up my inner talent. I guarantee you, there are talents still sleeping in you and me. But they will never be discovered unless we try to find them.
To wake them up is a three-part process.
First, we must try a task for which we feel we have no talent, and probably don't even want to attempt.
Second, instead of just trying, we must seek advice from individuals who do the task well.
Third and finally, we need to create a system to do the task according the advice we've been given. Then we have to perform the task for a while - even if we don't like it too much. (Otherwise we just say we can't do it, and give up.)
I use a quadrant system to illustrate this.
It demonstrates the results we can create through having talents - or inner skills - along with a system for using them (which may have been learned from others). Think about this as it may apply to your talent for speaking in front of a group for instance.
Peter Urs Bender is one of Canada's most dynamic and entertaining business speakers. He lives and works out of Toronto. He is the author of four best-selling business books: Leadership from Within, Secrets of Power Presentations ,Secrets of Power Marketing, Secrets of Face-to-Face Communication, and Gutfeeling. To read excerpts from his books visit: http://www.PeterUrsBender.com.
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